Some things my students appreciate
Perhaps a ridiculous or pretentious topic, but there are some things that I’m beginning to notice my students really appreciate.
- Greetings – Even students I don’t teach seem to know my name lately, and I can only think it’s because I greet almost everyone I meet while on duty or heading to class.
- Deadlines – Steady and fair, with room for exceptions.
- Expectations – Lessons that clearly outline what is required for success and formative feedback from that lesson.
- Smiling – Not like a jerk. Just find reasons to laugh at jokes or tech problems.
- Humor – Not sarcastic and not at someone’s expense.
- Noticing hair and fashion changes – And if their hair hasn’t changed, you’ll still get credit for complimenting it.
- Sincerity – Enjoy your subject and reveal how it affects your life.
- Hobbies – Have your own hobbies.
- Ideas – However irresponsible they may be, many students want to discuss responsibility. So invite them to think about ethics.
- Boundaries – Friendliness cannot compromise your advocacy of every student’s rights in the classroom.
- Punctuality – Run lessons efficiently.
- Avoid trap questions and activities. Think, pair, share.
- Food – Even if you don’t share it, many kids seem to respect or identify with adults that eat in public.
- Student feedback – Ask students for their opinion about their learning.
- Get involved in your school community.
I’m not saying I do this every day and this is by no means a complete list — and I haven’t tried to categorize these suggestions. They are just some things that I’ve begun to notice the students at my school really appreciate.
November 5th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
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